Tο άρθρο "The Art of Erotic Spanking" το έγραψε η Fetish Goddess Eva και τοποθετήθηκε στο βιβλίο "Μen's Health"κάτω ακριβώς από το άρθρο που έχει γράψει η γνωστή στους περισσότερους από Ε/εμάς Dominatrix, Fetish Diva Midori.
"Erotic spanking is a secret pleasure, unknown to many. It is also a good kinky Domination and submission game that can easily be played by people who don’t need to have a deep understanding of the BDSM ways. It is also a very good introduction to this lifestyle.The human bottom is an important erogenous zone; the nerves that give sexual arousal are located inside a layer of fat. As a result, they require a hard stimulation -- like in spanking or even flagellation -- to trigger them;
In order to achieve an orgasm, blood must be go to the genitals and remain there and in the nearby areas. Spanking creates the right response for this, as the stimulation of the skin causes blood to collect in the area (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals). Although this technique is mechanical, it creates the same effect as kissing does in the same area!
A properly done spanking, such as over the knee or with a cushion or other support underneath not only does it raise the bottom of your sub to the right position, but it also assists further stimulation by permitting your “submissive” to rub her clitoris or his penis on the supporting knee, pillow, blanket etc, thus enhancing the stimulation.
The feeling of "surrender" or “submission” is an important part of a “sub's” sexual response, as many people need to give up control and give themselves "permission" to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings. To do this you must create a safe environment, and gain your “sub’s” trust before moving to a game of erotic spanking.
The bottom line, no matter what the role play is, should be that spanking is a form of foreplay and that orgasm is the goal of both partners. As a result, the actual spanks should be mixed with caresses and gentle rubbing of their bottom and genitalia, and other foreplay if possible.
Tips for a good spanking session:
Notify your “sub” beforehand that they will be “punished” the same dayThe anticipation of this “punishment” will add to the sexual excitement. Tell them that if they do not obey, their punishment will be harsher.
Order your sub to prepare for their punishment
Your “sub” should cleanse him or her self before the spanking session. This means that they should have a shower, groom themselves, and wear sexy underwear for your enjoyment. Use your imagination and order them to wear a sexy costume. Inform them that for you to allow them to climax, will depend on how pleased you are by their appearance. This will add to their excitement.
Do not start immediately.
Inspect your “sub”, and show them your pleasure, or your displeasure. Comment on their appearance. Order them to kneel, beg you for mercy, and kiss your feet. This humiliating ritual will help them to understand their position in the forthcoming session and enhance their feelings of submission. Inform them that what you are about to do will be done “because they were naughty and punishment is necessary for their own good” and that it will all happen “for you to forgive them” after their punishment. Play with their body. Caress their bottom and genitals. Ensure that they are aroused, before you start. You can check this with your hand. Tell them what you are going to do to them and why. If you feel your “sub” trembling with excitement, you know that your preparation is working and they are ready.
Spank them and caress them alternatively.
Use a firm but sensual stroke to spread the heat over their bottom. Don’t hit the same spot twice. Use you fingers to caress their labia or cock, circle them around their anus. Explore their body. This will make your “sub” associate the spanking with pleasure. This will condition them to get arouse to spanking. Take your time, enjoy the feeling and allow them to enjoy this experience.
Correct spanking technique
The best way to spank is your palm, slightly cupped , with fingers held close together. It makes a good sound and makes the skin red, without causing a lot of pain. If your “sub” does not respond to this, hit with a flat palm and spread, relaxed, fingers. This will certainly give a good response, with little effort from your part. Start slowly, with an irregular tempo, and never allow your “sub” to foresee when the next stroke will come. This will add to their already increased tension and arousal. The most important things to remember is that what matters is not the number of spanks, or how hard you deliver them, that will bring your “sub” into a sexual frenzy. It is how “helpless”, “submissive” and sexually stimulated by your strokes that is important.
Spanking and sex
You can also employ spanking during your intercourse. Spanking in this manner, can be used outside a role-play game as the ones mentioned above. You can use it any time, or even use both of your hands to stroke. Light spanking during intercourse can build up your tempo (just as a rider creates a tempo for their horse.) and increase their arousal. During the intercourse, have your lover on top, hold them into your arms and use both of your arms to spank their bottom. Repeat this and increase your tempo and force, while they are climaxing."Η υπόθεση αυτή είχε και συνέχεια...
Ύστερα από κάποιες τηλεφωνικές επικοινωνίες που είχα με την γνωστή δημοσιογράφο Laura Tucker (αυτό είναι το πραγματικό της όνομα), και αφού ξεπέρασα κάποιους ενδόμυχους φόβους Μου, της έδωσα το δικαίωμα να δημοσιεύσει το άρθρο Μου στο βιβλίο, "Μens Helth GUIDE TO THE BEST SEX IN THE WORLD" και το οποίο υπογράφω ως "Fetish Goddess Eva, Greek Dominatrix"
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